This also sounds a bit obvious, but is one of the most important pieces of advice to keep in mind. The time now is Women now enjoy receiving oral sex more than any other type of sexual activity, research suggests. It's usually difficult to do because when my man knows he's going to get some, he becomes erect. If your partner is a woman, you may begin by gently stroking her thighs and softly moving to the outer labia. If you are in a good relationship there should be understanding. To start, what do you enjoy about performing oral sex?
This may be hard to believe, but I really enjoy doing it.
Im not crazy about catching an STD in the mouth, or putting my face into something that i have no idea where its been. I dislike it when I get no feedback. Then he proceeded to give me more directions until I was doing something completely different than what I was accustomed to. Turn on some soft or loud! Sometimes it is good enough to just feel those amazing sensations without focusing on the goal! Changing our breath changes the way we experience things, in all areas of life. Slowly and gently begin to run your fingers over your partner's genitalia.